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Andries van Tonder
Andries is officially retired and is not accepting any more clients or work,
other than supporting and advising other support workers, education,
training and certification.
Andries is active in several Parental Alienation support groups worldwide
and a staunch advocate for formal groups or associations. He is a founding
member of the Parental Alienation Awareness Association and still serving.
He is a member of the Parental Alienation Study Group (PASG) and
hope to be active with the European Association of Parental Alienation
Andries is presently researching “Aggressive Sadistic Alienation” and
“Piranha Relationship Breakdowns”
If approached by the Court, he will assist. He is still available to attend
Court via video link if it is on short notice or beyond the borders of
Ireland. If possible he will personally attend Court in Ireland.
Letter of introduction
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Andries van Tonder
Telephone: +353 (0) 46 954 9748
Mobile: +353 (0) 87 977
Enfield, Co. Meath
I am retired, working voluntary as allowed by my health.
Academically I am qualified with:
Certificate in Law Enforcement -1969,
Diploma in Theology – 1973,
Certificate in Psychology - 1977,
Certificate in OHS – 1980,
Higher Diploma in Education - 1983,
Lower Diploma in Small Business administration 1985,
Bachelor of Technology (Electrical and Information
Technology) - 1996,
Certification in Parental Alienation and Parental
Alienation Sequel – 2010.
My life experience is extensive working in positions from hard labourer to
I am a Fellow of the Parental Alienation Awareness Association of Ireland
specialising in education and on occasion, teenage and Adult PAS Children.
In March 2017 I was invited and accepted as member of the international
Parental Alienation Study Group.
I am a “Jail-house Lawyer” in Child Protection procedures, law, guidelines,
standards and litigation, including rhetoric involved.
I have extensive experience in the District, Circuit and High Court, and
some Supreme Court experience, attending court in more than 70 matters,
either as litigant in person, as expert Parental Alienation witness, witness
(for parents or for the authorities), support or as Court friend. I attended
Court hearings via video link in foreign jurisdictions on several matters,
as Parental Alienation Advisor.
On request or by appointment of the Court I have -
investigated matters and given my opinion as Amicus
Curiae or independent expert.
served as Guardian Ad Litem.
acted as advocate for several members of families in
dealings with authorities.
I authored several articles on the subject of Child Protection, Parental
Estrangement and Parental Alienation and am acknowledged as above average
knowledgeable on “Stockholm Syndrome”, “Piranha relationships” and
“Aggressive Sadistic Alienation”. I am above average knowledgeable on
identifying and analysing rhetoric report writing.
As Parental Alienation Therapist, I witnessed the effects and outcomes of
this serious form of child abuse in at least 60 cases where the ages of
clients varied between 2 and 75 years old. I took notice of several ultimate
outcomes including the death of children, target parents and alienating
parties. I predicted several ultimate outcomes and warned authorities and
law enforcement about it before it happened.
I am a Support Worker, not qualified as a Legal Professional, Social Worker
or Psychologist therefore I only “suggest”, I do not “advise”.
Quoting Professor Margaret Hagen's book with the the same title - I am not a
“Whore of the Court” and do not do report writing or present evidence at a
payment, other than proven expenses.
My native language is not English.
Senior Family Support Worker.
Parental Alienation Awareness Trainer and Mentor